Forgiveness

Today, I want to talk about forgiveness. I think that anyone has been in a situation where they had to forgive someone, or at least thought about it. You always have a choice. you can forgive or not. In this article, it sounds easy, but in real life it can be hard. It often depends on what you can forgive in others. Small things, like when someone dirties your jacket or spills your coffee are trivial, and you should be able to forgive them.

Now, I want to tell you a little story about what happened to me. I met a girl who was nice and smart, and it was wonderful to spend time with someone who was on a same wavelength as me. It was a refreshing change because I had been alone for two years. After I met this girl, I thought she could be ''the one. ''But...

After some time, I found out that she had lied to me about something significant. I don't want to go into specifics, but believe me, I was surprised, and I didn't want to see her anymore. This happened about a week ago, and I still don't know what to do. On one hand I really want to forgive her, because I know everyone makes mistakes, and that's okay. But on the other hand, every time when I see her, I'm reminded of what she lied about. I want to forgive her, and I know she regret it, but it's just hard to trust her again. I don't know what to do!

It would be nice if you could send me some your advice to my email.

However, in this situation I can't offer you any advice because, as you can see, I still don't know what I will do. Sometimes is okay not to have all the answers and just live. No one is forcing you to make any decision, you have time. This could be my advice, take your time, don't rush, and it will work out somehow. And that time, you will discover what you really want.

So, in the big things, take your time. But in the trivial matters, try to be kind and, if you can, just forgive. We are all human, and we all make mistakes. No one is perfect, so try to understand others and remember your own mistakes, because you are not perfect either.